If you visit an average elementary school classroom and assess each student's academic abilities, such as reading level and understanding of math, it would not be unusual to find a four grade-level range–and not necessarily the same range in both subjects for an individual student. (I once taught twins who were grades apart in math.)Then, if you plotted all these ability levels as points on a graph, and drew a line representing the average, and plotted that development over the course of several years, you'd get an acceding line of incremental progress–and a fairly useless tool by which to assess most students.
As parents know, most children don't grow evenly. One year a child might put on weight and be on the pudgy side. Then within months the child shoots up 3" and possibly looses 10 lbs.(Just look at the pencil marks on our kitchen door frame for evidence.)So it doesn't make sense to expect a child's reading and math abilities to grow at an even pace either.
As toddlers both of my children turned heads in public for their precocious and prodigious vocabulary. "I certainly am concerned that I can't make a long snake like Daddy does," exclaimed two year old Hana while rolling out play dough. Yet at the end of third grade her teacher was "very concerned" that Hana was not reading or spelling at grade level. She would be at risk in 4th grade where reading for content, rather than learning to read, was the way things rolled.
I explained that I had also been slow to learn to read, was still bad at spelling even though I'm a professional writer, and that I saw Hana as a very intelligent person, verbally expressive, with a great imagination and curiosity about the world. I believed she would catch up sooner or later and I was not concerned about how she measured up to the average. The teacher reiterated her concerns–including the pressure on herself professionally-–the mandate to get her students rolled out to a certain length by a certain time. Summer school was strongly suggested.
Hana was already feeling negative enough about school and herself as a learner. "I hate writing," she exclaimed. It was time to try homeschooling.
I encouraged her to read whatever books she found interesting–picture books, comic books-–never mind the reading level. Out from under the pressure of comparing herself to outside standards, she began to relax and enjoy reading again. By the end of summer she'd left Magic Tree House in the dust and was deeply into the Harry Potter series. During her first year of homeschooling she used the computer to type a novel and declared that being a writer was one of her careers options.
At the end of third grade John's teacher referred him for testing. So did I. This time we were equally concerned. And John loved his teacher, so we knew that wasn't part of the problem. He said school was too easy-–and too hard. According to the tests he was right: a high I.Q., especially verbal, coupled with a very low processing speed made things too easy and too hard. He couldn't help but notice that everyone else finished written work before him, many tests and worksheets came home half done, and yet he was grade levels ahead when it came to discussing facts and concepts from science, geography, astronomy, or whatever he was passionate about at the time.
I described him as the Green Mountain Railroad. Chugging along at his own slow pace he would certainly reach the top. Push him at all and he'd derail-–and cause a forest fire with his sparks. He felt low self esteem as a learner, and low regard for school in general. I endured explosions every day before and after school. The doctor who did his neuro-psych evaluation the summer after third grade asked me, "Why aren't you homeschooling?" She explained that the school could only do so much to accommodate his needs. Individualized learning, without time pressures, with 1:1 attention from a tutor was highly indicated. I sighed deeply. I didn't know if I had it in me to go through the early grades all over again, eight years after doing that with Hana. But it seemed like a critical time.
Within his first year home John morphed from disliking all reading except Calvin and Hobbes cartoons to lying on the couch devouring Percy Jackson and the Olympians. He didn't spend much time reading this past summer, as his sister and female cousins did at his age, but then, he explained, "I'm a boy!" Is that a ridiculous excuse?
No, as it turns out. From my own reading, The Minds of Boys: Saving Our Sons from Falling Behind in School and Life, by Michael Gurian describes that the brains of boys and girls really are different in some ways that significantly influence how and when they will be ripe to learn in certain ways. I feel reassured that taking him "out of the system" was the right thing to do. I'm thankful for the advice to do it right away, averting a downward slide into a more sullen, angry, disengaged attitude.He is so much more relaxed, happy, and confident. We discuss multiple intelligences and learning styles frequently.
I'm learning to stop ranking John relative to Hana at the same age. Never mind those internal mental charts and family statistics. The fact that he can read above grade level when inspired by the content is enough for now. There are many other ways than text books for us to get content knowledge. I'll tell you about our Reader Pig in an upcoming post!